Chat Trends as Man Drags Girlfriend for Refusing to Wash His Family Members' Clothes after Visiting

A Nigerian lady has shared a screenshot of the message she received from her boyfriend after visiting his mother In the WhatsApp message, the young man expressed anger at his girlfriend for not washing the clothes of his family members According to him, he expected her to take up the responsibility in order to impress his family and make them see her as a wife material Read more:  A Nigerian lady sparked outrage online after sharing a message from her boyfriend, which revealed his expectations of her role in his family. 

In the message which the lady posted on TikTok, the boyfriend expressed anger and disappointment at his girlfriend who visited his mother. Man blasts girlfriend who visited mum's house His girlfriend @nolamlens shared a screenshot of the WhatsApp message where he expressed his frustration with her behaviour during her visit to his mother. 

According to the boyfriend, she had failed to meet his expectations by not doing enough household chores. His message suggested that he had expected her to take on a great amount of domestic work, including washing clothes for his family members and sweeping the entire house. He seemed to believe that by doing so, she would have demonstrated her suitability as a partner. In his words: "I have been trying to call you but you refused to pick my call because you know what you did. I have to beg you because before you could visit my mom and you could not act well when you got there? You couldn't helped my elder sister to wash her clothes. You swept just my mother's room, sitting room and the kitchen. 

"What will it remove from your body if you sweep the whole house including my siblings' room? Can't you pretend for just two days? You get there, my mom even packed her clothes outside just to test you to see if you will collect it and wash, but you looked away and my younger sister had to wash it. You were busy doing your jobs when you can take some time off so you can help my mom and siblings when you visit."

While sharing the screenshot online, the girlfriend advised ladies never to settle for less, especially a man who's too attached to his mother. She said: "POV: You went to visit your bf mother and refused to perform housemaid duties. Ladies don't settle for less. Especially a mamas boy." 

Reactions as lady posts messages from boyfriend Many TikTok users who viewed the post criticised the boyfriend's attitude, with some labelling him a "mamas boy". @HER asked: "Have you block that thing? Have you blocked it?" @lizzycutie_xx said: "If person use cloth test me I go fail. I can’t even wash my own clothes." @OMOfolashaye said: "My love are you still with the guy Abi make I park my own cloth Come too." 

@Chi said: "The first time I visited my mother in law she served me food and still packed the plate herself, my husband and her told me not to move! That’s how you know people that cherish you!"